The righteous shall flourish like the palm tree: he shall grow like a cedar in Lebanon. Those that be planted in the house of the LORD shall flourish in the courts of our God. They shall still bring forth fruit in old age; they shall be fat and flourishing; To shew that the LORD is upright: he is my rock, and there is no unrighteousness in him. Ps 92: 12-15

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Being Ministers of God...


During one of my 'me and God' times at the beach, I was reading in Psalms and was led to some scripture in II Corinthians. I'm sure I can't relay to others what the Lord put on my heart that morning, but I want to blog about it as much for my benefit as anyone else's.



Giving no offence in any thing, that the ministry be not blamed: But in all things approving ourselves as the ministers of God in much patience, in afflictions, in necessities, in distresses, in stripes, in imprisonments, in tumults, in labours, in watchings, in fastings; by pureness, by knowlege, by longsuffering, by kindness, by the Holy Ghost, by love unfeigned, by the word of truth, by the power of God, by the armour of righteousness on the right hand and on the left, by honour and dishonour, by evil report and good report: as deceivers, and yet true; As unknown, and yet well known; as dying, and, behold, we live; as chastened, and not killed; As sorrowful, yet alway rejoicing; as poor, yet making many rich; as having nothing, and yet possessing all things. II Corinthians 6:3-10.


Maybe why this scripture spoke to me so much was due to the fact that I know God has been speaking to me regarding this area already. Am I known as a Christian among my friends, coworkers, students? Do others see me as a minister of God? And if so, am I bringing shame to the ministry? Oh how that grieves my heart... I never want to be the reason someone might not come to know Jesus. In distresses, tumults, afflictions (things that happen everyday) do I react with longsuffering (I know I lack in this), kindness, love unfeigned (not pretend love, but real and genuine)? Do I allow the Holy Spirit to lead my reaction?


There have been several new trials in my life lately and I wonder if my response is pleasing to the ministry. I believe God has put me in a position where I cross paths with hundreds of new people every semester and I want my life to portray the attributes of a Christian. I want others to see Christ in me. As Pastor said on Sunday, "Do you need to wear a t-shirt that says 'I Love Jesus' for folks to know that you do??"


Let me be alway rejoicing...


*the difference between always and alway: Always is at every occasion; Alway is all the time, perpetual.

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Cape San Blas 2010



We left Friday afternoon for a much anticipated vacation to Cape San Blas, Florida. Where is that you ask? Just about as far south as you can go on Florida's Gulf Coast.. Our initial plans were to go to the Destin area this year. We had never been to the white sand beaches where the water was supposed to be crystal clear. As we searched endlessly for a house that suited our needs (input AFFORDABLE here), we got further and further away. Cape San Blas turned out to be about 3 hours east of Destin. We were as remote as we were in the Outer Banks in North Carolina last year. No fast food places. No souvenier shops. No big crowds. Just rows of beautiful homes, sand and water. The sand was white. The water, however, was definitely not clear. It was the dirtiest ocean water I'd ever seen. Any white swimwear turned a dull brown. Just like swimming in Watts Bar :P. The locals attributed it to the bad storms the week before our arrival. They also said it would clear up by Monday. Not so. I think it was even dirtier by Wednesday. Our neighbor cornered me one day complaining. I think she wanted an invite to our pool. They had a teenage boy, so no invite there :).

We travelled with a trunk load of luggage/food/junk and 3 teenagers in the back seat. Alyssa's friend, Faith, went with us this year. We definitely could have used some extra room. Logan made no complaints regarding his extra back seat buddy, but he doesn't complain about much of anything. He is so easy going. Maybe too much so at times. He's like his Uncle Tony (and his mom) in that way. We spent a night in Troy, Alabama, before starting out to finish the trip on Saturday morning. Jeff hates to travel. He prefers to break up a trip, but I'd just as soon drive all the way in one day. Maybe because I'm just cheap that way...

We arrived Saturday afternoon and of course the house was not ready. We drove around the Cape for a while and then sat on the front porch of the realtor eating cherries and spitting seeds into a pipe (well Logan spit them; I just threw them). Tonia and Mike were already there, but spent their time eating at Coneheads. (The only restuarant on the Cape).


The house was beautiful. I loved the kitchen with its huge granite island with seating for 8. The boys ended up with the top floor 'eagles nest'. This proved to be the best place for them.... They left enough sand to fill a child's sand box. The biggest downfall to the house this year was the lack of TV's :0)~ Only 4 in the whole house. Our house last year had TV's in every bedroom and one in both living areas as well as the eagle's nest. 9 in all. That's practically a TV a piece.



Oh, I almost forgot, what the kids considered to be the biggest downfall. No cell service on the Cape!! Can you imagine their dismay??? How could they survive? Turns out Faith had the only phone with service. And we all have Verizon. I was thankful she had service cause she'd have died without talking to Trent. The only internet access was via walled cord. Until, I noticed our neighbors on their deck with laptops. I figured they must have wireless. :) This made everyone's day. What with 3 laptops among us, a bountiful supply of iPod touches, communication with the outside world was once again possible.

One of the best parts about being on vacation is mornings. Whenever we are at the beach, I try to spend each morning with a walk/run/jog and then I sit on the porch with my Bible and enjoy some 'me & God time'. I say walk/run/jog because I seem to do quite a mixture. I had been doing Jilian's 30 day shred DVD for over a month, every day prior to our trip. I hadn't been running. You'd think running wouldn't have been too much different. Not so. There were sprinklers along my route. Each morning, I'd longingly eye them wondering what folks would say if I just bent over and got a drink from one :) On the last morning I got a late start (7:30 am). The sun was beaming on me. I thought, "I'm just going to run through those sprinklers today." Imagine my dismay when I turned the corner and saw that the sprinklers were off!!! It was so HOT!!

During one of my morning Bible readings, the Lord spoke to me from II Corinthians 6: 3 - 10.. I plan to blog about that in another post.

The weather on Sunday and Monday was rainy, so on Monday, everyone decided to drive to Panama City and see a movie. Everyone but Alyssa and Jeff. The thoughts of driving over an hour one way to the movies made them sick. They are so much alike. Granted I didn't care in the least about going to a movie, but I was willing. So, Jeff, Alyssa, Faith and I drove up to Mexico City Beach. Supposedly, there were lots of shops there. Nope, nothing to see. Rather miserable journey in fact.


The rest of the week was HOT and sunny. Tonia had made an appointment with a photographer to have the girls' senior pictures taken on Tuesday evening. They were so excited. Lots of outfit changes. We made a makeshift changing room on the beach (which consisted of sheets from the boys' room). The girls had a blast and said it was something they'd never forget. They felt like models on a photo shoot. I'm excited to get the CD of the pictures. She took over 300!!



I had to put this on here cause someone said I looked as skinny as Faith :P



Jeff and Mike spent a lot of time fishing this year. Jeff ususally doesn't fish in the ocean, but he seemed to enjoy it this time. They caught lots of fish, but never managed to have a fish fry. Jeff caught a flounder one day. That was the weirdest looking fish I'd ever seen. Completely white on one side. Two eyes on the other side. Sharp teeth. I thought it was a piranha.!!!

Don't you just love this pic of Jeff :P

On Wednesday evening, we drove back up to Mexico Beach so the kids could parasail. Now parasailing looks like a very enjoyable experience, but at $45 for 7 minutes, not worth it for this cheap skate. Alyssa used the $20 Mamaw gave her and I had to chip in the rest. She said it was well worth it. The best part was watching them ride out to the boat on one of those banana boats. Faith said they wouldn't get wet, so no need to wear bathing suits. Definitely not so. They were drenched.

I saved a fortune on hair care products! :)


We had rented the house Saturday to Saturday, but the Mehlhorns' and Collins' had to leave on Friday. Faith began packing to go with them. I still don't understand that whole deal, but because we brought her and felt responsible for her delivery back to TN, we decided to head home as well. Even though I hated to give up a day on the beach (especially one already paid for), I was glad for an extra day home before work on Monday. We washed clothes the whole time we were there, so not too much laundry!!!


The drive home was an interesting one. Jeff 'let' me drive after we stopped for breakfast. We travelled home through Georgia instead of Alabama. Seemed a little shorter. Do you know how hard it is to have a 3 car convoy along the interstate? Especially when decisions to exit are made at the last minute? I was bringing up the rear, knew we should be in the right lane to turn, we were in the far left passing a semi. Not pretty.... Thought we were all going to die... At our stop after Atlanta, Mike complimented me on my leading through that area. He said he was afraid I'd get all 'white-knuckled" and slow down. Not much confidence in my driving skills, huh??

Crepe Myrtles were beautiful in Alabama. I loved this purple one!

Got home at 3:30 pm to a torrential downpour. From what I understand, that was the first rain since we left. Mom fixed supper - fried okra, corn on cob, cucumbers, pinto beans, cornbread... Wonderful!!! We cooked everyday at the beach, but nothing like good 'home' cooking.

Now planning next years trip with the girls - NYC, NY!!!!

Monday, June 14, 2010

Just who is the funny one...

My kids often bring this question up during family outings or while sitting around the house. They want to know just who is the funny one in our family - Me or Dad. Now that may seem like an unlikely question to some. Jeff doesn't appear to be funny at all to most people. He is a practical joker. One who relishes in playing tricks on people and then sitting back and grinning like an opossum as he watches his theatrics unfold. But he can be funny. We pulled up to the drive thru at McDonalds the other day and the lady said in a very annoying sing-songy voice, "would you like to try our new... " and Jeff answered in the same sing songy voice, 'no, thank you'. She quickly followed with a crushed, clipped voice, "order when ready". It was hilarious. The only thing, Jeff never laughs out loud. My kids often joke that they can count on one hand the number of times they have heard Jeff laugh out loud. That sounds sad, doesn't it? It's really not; he is funny. It is just expressed in a subdued manner.

Now me, on the other hand, will laugh hysterically over almost anything. Even about things that are not really funny. I can act stupid with the best of them and 'try' to entertain my kids with great antics and comments. I'm the loud funny one. Not everyone knows this about me either. Lys was talking to someone one evening while Logan and I were making great fun of a man on 'In it to win it'. Whomever she was talking to could not believe the hysteria going on at the house. "That just doesn't sound like your mom", they said. Lys, "you just wouldn't believe how she acts." Now I'm not sure that was a compliment, but I believe it was.

Thus the question, who is the funny one??? I always argue it's me... but I think perhaps it's... Logan when he's having a blonde moment, Alyssa when she's relating a story, Jeff in the midst of a great practical joke, and me - just cause I have the best time.

We spent the weekend together in Pigeon Forge laughing. We had a hoot at Olive Garden. I thought Logan would truly loose it over Jeff's disgust with his food. I'm sure the waitress thought we were laughing at her. We had a great time and I hope my kids will always remember laughing together as a family.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

'Can we stop'...

Summer basketball camps are in full swing. Logan has been in Sequatchie since Monday. Alyssa is at RSCC for the next three days. This weekend, we also squeeze in a baseball tournament in Pigeon Forge. :) Fun, Fun..



We traveled to Sequatchie last night to watch Logan in a JV tourney. What a drive! It was 95 miles from our house to the high school. We had a blast on the way down. Me and Lys asked Jeff a hundred times, 'can we stop'. He never would let us. Such a spoiler of fun. We so wanted to stop at the overlook on the way home and take a picture of the sunset. Nope. So here is the picture I got...

We saw numerous signs for a new 'dipped' cone at McDonald's. Would he stop??? Nope. Finally in Rockwood he decides he's hungry and will stop at Harriman Mickey D's. Did they have the new dipped cone? Nope!!! How rude!!!!!!!!! We must have passed 5 McDonald's that had them but we just had to stop in Harriman.


Tomorrow it is back to RSCC. Then on Friday, Jeff and Logan head to PF while Alyssa and I spend the day at RSCC. That's how it goes. Non-stop next 3 weeks. (plus we get to squeeze in Bible School next week too).

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Gut feelings - serious stuff...

Have you ever wanted to run screaming mad after taking advice from people that went against your gut instinct??? You should always, always, follow your gut! That's where I'm at currently.

Each of us possesses a unique God-given gift; the inherent ability to tap into our instinctive intuition. Instead of laying back and playing it safe, why not go with your gut feelings and see where they take you?

"Trust your hunches. They're usually based on facts filed away just below the conscious level." Dr. Joyce Brothers
I know my hunch was right. I know I should've followed it. I chose the easy path only to make it harder on myself in the long run.
BTW: don't try to read too much into this. It doesn't relate to my family, my church, or God.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Graduation pics..


I'm following through on my promise to get Logan's 8th grade graduation pics posted. Yeah me!When I zoomed in, they were very blurry. So, here is Logan receiving his 'diploma'.
I didn't get a pic of Logan walking in... Most unorganized ceremony I've ever seen.. With maybe the exception of a few GED graduations I put on :) They were playing some awful music. I just happened to turn around and there was Logan walking in. (He was first, of course). No direction from the staff on stage to stand. No 'Pomp and Circumstance'. Couldn't hear the first two young ladies' speeches. (Thankfully someone yelled out to turn up the sound). SO, above is one of him leaving... Logan and Josh
Logan and Daniel at El Patrons after the ceremony

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Prom: better late than never..

Prom was April 22, so I'm just a month late sharing pics. Not too bad ;)

After a useless trip to Knoxville looking for a dress that Alyssa and I could agree on in both cost and style, we found one at Vivian's in Oliver Springs. And can you believe this?? I stopped in and fell in love with this dress, took Lys back that evening and she liked it best? Who'd have thought? The color was gorgeous and I loved the way it laced up in the back. Not too fond of the way the front tended to slip down. Didn't do that in the store...
This year, she went with a bunch of girls to the prom. None of them could make up their mind about what time to leave, where to eat, where to meet... etc. It also rained all day and they were calling for terrible storms that evening. Nonetheless, I think she had a good time..

Lindsay's and Alyssa's dresses both laced up the back.

Tori, Lindsay, Lys, Dustin and his date, Miranda, Courtney, and Misty



Me and Dustin goofing off...